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Top 20 Best Sex Songs

elysium @ Friday 20th February, 2004

songs in the key of sex

I don't know what has gotten into me but whenever I play certain mp3s or cd's now I just feel like "wow what a great sex song!".. weird i know! maybe i need to "get some" or something but i thought i'd share what i think are Top 20 Sex Songs, i'll give a reason for why i picked each song. if you've got any that you want to share.. go ahead!

20. Wylde Rattz (Ewan Mcgregor) - T.V. Eye
From the movie Velvet Goldmine. Ewan is lead singer of Wylde Rattz and in the part where he sings this song, he is shirtless, sweaty, breathing heavily, shaking gold glitter all over himself on a stage surrounded by fire. Just looking at him makes me want to go and lick my television screen *drool*

19. Ammonia - Little Death
An Aussie band with a cute lead singer. This song has people having sex on the beginning of it..but that isn't why it's good. The song is slow and sexy, with heavy parts in it. I learned in Literature in high school that "a little death" was a term for sex back when people like Shakespeare were around.

18. Garbage - Queer
Shirley Manson is a sex goddess. She oozes sex appeal and this was my first and favourite song by Garbage. The song is incredibly sexy, when I think of it, the lines at the end of the song always come to mind "i know what's good for you, i know you're dying to, i know what's good for you, i bet your're dying to.."

17. Massive Attack - Angel
I don't have a lot of Massive stuff in my collection but I like this song because I like the music. The music has a nice beat, slow and sensual. It'd be good to play once you've had a few drinks and feel like slowly stripping each other!

16. Groove Theory - Tell Me
I love the slow beat and the words to this. Just thinking along the lines of "tell me if you want me to" just conjures up hundreds of kinky thoughts to say to some lush boy.

15. Massive Attack - Protection
I like this song a lot. I like the words a lot and I love Tracey Thorn from Everything But The Girl vocals. The song title has nothing to do with protection in a sexual sense.

14. Mandalay - Beautiful (7" Canny Mix)
Every girl needs to be told she is beautiful, but this song does that for you. It's slow, with heady and sweet vocals with a really nice beat. Maybe you could hook up your Winamp visualisation plug-ins and chill out to this with the one you lurve.

13. Drill - What You Are
This is from the movie Empire Records. I don't recall it being played during the film but it is on the soundtrack. I always feel sexy when I listen to this song. The singer's vocals are moving and strong. There is a really heavy guitar riff that I kind of mentally block out, but the rest of the song is great.

12. Kylie Minogue - Breathe (Sash! Mix)
Who doesn't think Kylie Minogue is one hot chick?! She has a great body, is gorgeous and still has a great voice even though she is now 35! Her version of this song is slow.. very slow. I like this Sash! mix better as it has a good beat and the words are breathy, sexy & meaningful.

11. HIM - Wicked Game
This song doesn't need much explaining. Its a great cover of Chris Isaak's "Wicked Game". The guitar is heavy and makes your heart pound. The words are sexy and full of meaning. Ville Valo's vocals really do this song justice as I am not a fan of Chris Isaak. This song makes me want to find some sexy, arty, sensitive, tortured type, possibly with a piercing or tatt and ask if he fancies sleeping with me tonight!

10. Mazzy Star - Fade Into You
Mazzy Star is one of my favourite bands. Their singer Hope Sandoval has an amazing voice and I've always liked this song. It makes me think of slow dancing after a home-cooked candlelit dinner.. maybe followed by a tandem shower and an early night *wink*

09. Mother Love Bone - Chloe Dancer/Crown of Thorns
This song is probably more in the Top 10 of this 20 not because it's especially sexy but because it reminds me of a personal experience. A boy I loved from the ages of 14-17 sang this to me at a party we were at..lines like "I wanna tell you that I love you.." really touched the heart of me then, and still do to this day.

08. Radiohead - High and Dry
Radiohead are a great band. This song is no exception. It has great words and is nice and slow. My favourite part to this song is the line "and I can't help the feeling, i could blow through the ceiling.." This reminds me of making out with boy from #9 above, all over his newly laid wooden kitchen floor while his parents were away.

07. Jeff Buckley - Lover, You Should've Come Over
Jeff Buckley was a god of a man. His voice was so sensual and touching. The words to this song (apart from the first couple of lines about the funeral) are all the things that I wish I could find a man like. Sensitive and beautiful..

06. Monifah - Touch It
I don't need to say anything about this song except "do you really wanna touch it, do you really wanna fuck with me tonight? and if you know how i like it would you call my name and give it to me right?".. combined with a wicked R&B beat, this song belongs on this list!

05. Depeche Mode - In Your Room
This song is almost creepy. It's my favourite Depeche Mode song. It has extremely haunting vocals. It gets me thinking about role-playing, intense sex like when you first start having sex with a boyfriend (or friend?!) and you're willing and open to anything the other wants to try and it becomes almost mind-blowingly obsessive sex where you just can't stop having it and you want each other constantly. It reminds me of an experience I had with a guy, he only had to wrap his hand around my stomach and I'd just melt.

04. No Doubt - Hella Good
I love Gwen Stefani (but I love her husband more...mmm Gavin Rossdale). I love the funky, throbbing beat of this song. I just can't help thinking about sex whenever I hear her singing and panting heavily throughout this song. The words are pretty sexy too!

03. Portishead - Only You
Anyone that knows me well, knows that I love Portishead to death. They are like my number one band. Beth Gibbons' vocals are haunting, strained and hypnotic. When you're so in love with somebody, you feel like they are the only one for you and my interpretation of this song suggests how one person can make or break another so completely with their love.

02. Nine Inch Nails - Closer
You oughta be ashamed of yourself if you don't know this song! With a repeated line throughout of "I wanna fuck you like an animal"..this song was almost my number 1! Trent Reznor is god and I want his babies. The video to this song is second to none. How could you not want Trent shirtless, in black pvc pants with knee high lace-up Dr Martens, blindfolded, bound and gagged with black electrical tape, wriggling and writhing around, screaming about how he wants to feel you from the inside and how you get him closer to God?! This mental picture alone is instant-orgasm worthy!

The #1 song to have sex to is:
01. Portishead - Roads

I told you I love Portishead. Since I discovered Portishead, this song has always been my number one song to have sex to. I have always wanted to find the right guy and ask him if I can play this. I don't literally listen to the words because they are incredibly sad and I think they are about a war of some sort. I love the slowness, the haunting, sad vocals that make me want to be scooped up into a beautiful boy's arms. I envision slow dancing, bodies pressed close and lots of slow dreamy kisses and lots of slow, passionate, intense and mind-blowing sex. Hey, I can dream can't I??

51 Responses

em-pathy
20th February 2004

Great post, I agree with a few of the choices. Good variety of music aswell, you have good tastes.

alpha
24th February 2004

hmmmn....

drill-what you are

damn FINE song

good list, i agree

nemesis
24th February 2004

Reckon it's missing a couple...

Nickelback - Figured you out
The first line says it all--
"I like your pants around your feet"

and c'mon, you've gotta have at least one Justin Timberlake song in there...

Justin Timberlake - Rock Your Body
Simply for the line "Gonna have you naked by the end of this song".... That, and its a great song.

Just my two cents.

em-pathy
25th February 2004

Pendulum - Coma
"hug me till you drug me from me, kiss me until I'm in a coma"
and of course the opening line of "ever since I was born I've been trained to serve you".

You can't go past this song, there aren't too many distracting lyrics, it starts slow and works its way up to a peak and it's very ambient and calming.

Also I would suggest, Lovage - Sex (I'm A). This song gets credit for being about sex. It has a sexy female vocalist and a, well I'm a guy so I dont truly know how this dude fairs in the sexual vocals department, decent male vocalist and like Coma it also works its way to a peak with both singers moaning and panting louder and louder ...and eventually they just stop, but you get the idea of what it would sound like.

And I'm very dissapointed no-one has mentioned Khia - My Neck, My Back yet :p

em-pathy
25th February 2004

I suck, "hug me till you drug me, honey" not what I said.

Also, Pete, if you can maintain an erection while a Justin Timberlake song is playing...well, you know what that means.

Off to the corner with you.

nemesis
27th February 2004

Jerry: Consider this.. Why do they play Justin Timberlake at so many clubs? (Namely Shooters, Quattro and Southpacs)...

There has to be *something* there that gets people's attention

em-pathy
29th February 2004

Well while none of the canberra clubs are particuarly representative of a good club, shooters and southpackers are still considered by many the lowest of the bunch. Great drink prices of course, but not the sort of place I would stick around for the music or atmosphere.

Secondly, the music is there for the underrage female types that places like Shooters attract. It isn't all bad though, it brings the young niave girls and in turn, this brings the manipulative, slightly older guys, not that I know any :p

Just because it's popular doesn't make it right, and what's right isn't always popular.

em-pathy
29th February 2004

Uhh I've been drinking a little so I don't know if I made it clear but my first point is that Shooters and Southpackers are not representative of good clubs and therefore don't defend your pop music choice.

mason
03rd March 2004

Common People, 'Salt n Pepper - Shoop' hasn't even made an appearance in there, plus I dont' see Magic Stick in the list.

manboobs
14th June 2004

Come on people Machine Gun Fellatio - "PussyTown".

Enough Said.

Anything by JET is normally also helpful.

cerydwen
20th February 2005

I have to say that I tottaly agree with em-pathy...pendulum - coma is the best song...and that line "hug me till you drug me from me, kiss me until I'm in a coma"...well, u have to ear it and feel it

When i ear justin timberlake in a club i don't feel it like a sexy music but like "oh no! not this again"

Porthishead..also have great songs..very intimate.

cerydwen
20th February 2005

ups ..portishead

cerydwen
20th February 2005

lol...ok...and the line is "hug me till you drug me honey" my mistake, i was carryed by the first post..finito

ericaaa
31st December 2005

haha the only reason i joined this thing was because
the top 3 songs to have sex to are
3)Heavy- Collective Soul
2)Paranoid Anderoid - Radiohead.
1)Pantomime - Incubus.

enjoyyy =)

Loisel
24th March 2006

KEITH SWEAT

SWEAT....

if you're planning to go nice and slow... man, do it to
"nobody"
nobody can not have sex to this

halaku
01st May 2006

'little death' actually refers to orgasm... its from the french: 'le petit mort'.

my personal favourites? nin - closer is just too cliched to be true... but cliches are over-used for a reason, right? wink.gif and not to mention that all you need do is just close your eyes and trent is right there in front of you... hehe...

deftones - digital bath, or any song off white pony, the entire album is just so sexual, it drips with inuendos and chino moreno's voice is far too sensual for words. shame my boyfriend doesnt like deftones...

KMFDM - penetration. look at the title. enough said? actually this is another case of an entire album to fuck to. its called opium - instantly conjures up that heady, slow, sensual feeling...

and ive got to agree with pendulum - coma. that song makes me want to tie myself to a bed.
and yeah, incubus - pantomime is so adorable... especially the line 'you look good entwined in my hair and skin and spit and sweat and spilled red wine, youre my deep secret, im your pantomime, ill just move my hands i promise youll see what i mean'. cant help my mind wandering during that song...

mellowdrone - you & i. give it a listen. and be turned on. go on, i dare ya.

LBeaub
29th July 2008

Jimmy Eat World - Night Drive

LBeaub
29th July 2008

Lenny Kravitz - 5.......the entire album (sigh)

fvc24
23rd August 2008

ok i am on the hunt for the hottest sensual sexual songs and you guys & girls have to listen to these ones very hot in my opinion....
1. bilingual-jose nunez (looong intro but great song, explicit, very sexual!)
2. lick-joi (sexual/Sensual)
3. scream-berlin (sexual/sensual)
4. can i touch you there-michael bolton (very sexy more on the romantic side though!)
6. i touch myself-jack off jill (great remake)
7.feelin love-paula cole (sexy lyrics)
check these out and tell me what you guys think!
fvc24

rbryant
22nd October 2008

Major kudos to you for including Portishead in the list. However, you left out the one song that packs the sensual punch the size of Texas...Glory Box. As much as I love Roads, it reminds me of driving on a rainy, fall afternoon with a cup of coffee. PBS or BBC, forgot which one, played Roads to the images of the 9/11 WTC attack...completely ruins the intimacy factor.

niten
11th November 2008

I just had to leave a msg asking 'halaku' if you want to marry me...!

I friggin love deftones and I often put them on if i'm in the mood. Especially the white pony album- Rx Queen, Change in the house of flies and knife party. Hot as Hell! (I usually don't cut anyone's lunch but, halaku dear, if ure b.f. doesn't dig the def, its not gonna work out!). Also, other songs of their's like mascara, lucky you and my own summer (their version of To Have and to Hold by Depeche Mode is pretty sexy too).

I think NIN's 'closer' is kinda hot, but I think there's sexier songs on the album Pretty Hate Machine.
Also I seem to remember some very sexy times had to the musical stylings of Marilyn Manson...! I guess its the kick out of being hedonistic. His version of 'I put a spell on you' is also damn sexy. You can hear it in the David Lynch film 'Lost Highway.'

jhiserote
15th March 2009

Love this list but there is one song that you should definitely list...Cry To Me by Solomon Burke...Dirty Dancing love scene..yeah..it's awesome!

jonrite
05th March 2010

Great list. There are only a few I would add.

Garbage - #1 Crush
Massive Attack - Angel, Butterfly Caught, Special Cases
Deftones - Digital Bath
Radiohead - Knives out
Pink Floyd - Hey you
Mute Math- You are mine (best for making love)
And ANY song by Portishead... Beth is a goddess.

nothigh&dry
09th August 2010

Yes, I created this account just so I could say the following, because Radiohead deserves better than this.

If you are going to say that "High and Dry" is a great sex song then that's fine, just don't post lyrics from "Fake Plastic Trees" as the example of the line that moved you in the song; it makes you look absolutely stupid to a fan (which I guess a lot of these posters are not, even the ones that also suggested Radiohead songs).

msvelvet
23rd November 2010

Shake 'em Loose Tonight - Rumspringa
Down With My Baby - Kevin Johansen
Je T'aime - Enigma feat. Andru Donalds
Summer Nights - Cassie Steele
La Rose - Lesiem

Tallic
30th December 2010

Pussy Liquor - Rob Zombie
'Nuff Said

plok30
05th January 2011

System- Jonathan Davis
A Rapture- Stereo Alchemy
Lucky you- Deftones
Three Libras- A perfect Circle
Mascara- Deftones
Change- Deftones
Magdalena- A Perfect Circle
What If- Powerman 5000
Penetration- KMFDM

THE best rock songs to have sex to. Enjoy wink.gif

minisprak
09th January 2011

oh my god.... that SO happened to me. Sex to Portishead - Roads. Well... it didn't lead to sex at that exact moment. But that was when I kissed (INTENSE!!) a guy I'd had my eyes on for 2 years... Oh my god, when it happened.. the music suited so well.. cause it was sad at the same time as it was what I'd been wishing for for so long.
I'd been meeting this guy annually when I'd gone to New York to see my brother but nothing had ever happened. Then the third time..... This is my own, very personal, very close to heart experience if you'd want to read it.

Now this guy is the handsomest, best at heart, most intelligent person I have ever met. We had just come home from a party and the other ones we'd been there with sort of dozed off in their beds right after we'd come home. We were left alone in the living room, on the couch by the computer, and started showing each other good songs back and fourth. Suddenly he showed me Roads. He described it as a song you either commit suicide to OR have sex to.
I was sitting there, trying to cope with the intense song and all the time thinking how glad I was to just be alone with him, no matter what would happen.
It felt like that first time again, when you sat next to a guy you really liked for the first time and had NO idea what to do to approach him. I got tired that nothing happened and made some small gesture or something. He then put his hand on my neck and said "Ida, are you tired?" I caressed him back in a way and said "No, not very". As I'd put my hands over his shoulders I sloooowly started to massage him for a bit.
I'm the helpless romantic and this situation was helplessly unforgettable! I sat behind him eventually, massaging him more and more... he really seemed to enjoy it. EVERY second, from the slightest touch I'd gotten from him or when I'd put my hands on his shoulders I kept thinking "THIS is enough! Nothing else really needs to happen! This is too good! I don't care if this is all I'm getting for the rest of the year. It is too good to be true just to be this close to him. He is AMAZING "
Now I've had my share of boyfriends and it's been special.. I've been in love before. But this was just something else. SO intense.
Anyway... I couldn't take it anymore and basically threw my arms around him. He turned around and held me tight, so tight. It was like he'd been thinking what I'd been thinking every time I'd visited. Like this is what we've both wanted for a long, long time. I just lied there, in his arms, on the verge of crying of happiness. I feel silly just typing it down. It seems absurd... But I just genuinely liked/like him so much, that's all.
The next thing is almost a blur.. How we got to kissing. I guess we both took initiative, slowly.
That was that and we were stuck. Kissed and fooled around intensively on that couch to Portishead for hours. Roads, Glory box, All mine, Mysterons, Sour times. As many Portishead songs there were. Glory box is the best next to Roads, trust me!. Anyway, we couldn't really do anything more about the situation at the time. More happened later, at a more convenient time. smile.gif Unforgettable. I wish everyone the same experience.

I'm back in Sweden and the passion in Roads have a more bittersweet meaning now. Life isn't the best atm but New York isn't going anywhere and we'll see where the future takes us smile.gif

minisprak
09th January 2011

I forget we most important detail !
HIS hands running through my hair. Firm yet gentle. That is something I don't think any man will ever even get close to doing as good as him. Those hands... oh my god

minisprak
09th January 2011

I forgot the most important detail**

doap321
07th February 2011

I love Portishead- Roads too ... wink.gif wink.gif wink.gif

Randal85
09th February 2011

I've done my little research on the net (checked all related forums and sites (this included) that a good friend of mine, Mr Google, was kind enough to found for me), picked the songs that suited me best and created my list of cca 2 hours of sexual music.

Just a few notes:
-there are many ways to have sex which means that there is no one "perfect" soundtrack for everyone. This list represents the way I like doing it.
-the songs are in random order, you might want to reorder them (I'll do it later).
-I'm not from an Enligsh speaking country, which means that lyrocs have little importance for me, I was only looking for the proper sounding, not the words
-~90% of these songs can be downloaded from beemp3com

That's all. Hope you'll enjoy! smile.gif

01. Berlin - Scream
02. HIM - Wicked Game
03. Jack off Jill - I touch myself
04. Ammonia - Little Death
05. Garbage - Queer
06. Portishead - Roads
07. Ratatat - Wildcat
08. Portishead - Glory Box
09. Nine Inch Nails - Closer
10. Bright Eyes - Lover I don't have to Love
11. Kosheen - Same Ground Again
12. Tito and Tarantula - After Dark
13. The Cure - Lullaby
14. The Drill - What You Are
15. John Martyn - Glory Box
16. Mandalay - Beautiful (7" canny mix)
17. Sneaker Pimps - Underground
18. Air - All I Need
19. American Analog Set - Hard to Find
20. Fluke - Atom Bomb
21. Jem - Falling for You
22. Vast - Flames
23. Bush - Mouth
24. Britney Spears - Breathe on Me
25. Enigma - Gravity of Love
26. Placebo - Every Me and Every You
27. Tricky - Hell is Around the Corner
28. Jose Gonzales - Heartbeats
29. Bat for Lashes - Daniel (Mt. Eden dubstep)
30. Jeff Buckley - Everybody Here Wants You
31. Jeff Buckley - Yard of Blonde Girls
32. Kings of Leon - Closer
33. Kylie Minogue - Slow
34. Lisa Hall - Is This Real?
35. N.E.R.D. - She Wants to Move
36. Yeah Yeah Yeahs - Phenomena
37. Queens of the Stone Age - Go with the Flow
38. Stateless - Bloodsteam
39. HIM - Beautiful
40. HIM - You are the One

Randal85
09th February 2011

Okay, it's a bit more than 2 hours long smile.gif 2h44m

Randal85
11th February 2011

Found some more:

A Perfect Circle - Pet
Chester Bennington - System
Faith No More - Stripsearch
Live - Voodoo Lady
Motorcycle - As the Rush Comes (Gabriel Dresden Chillout Mix)
Ozzy Osborne - I Just Want You

Having sex for 3.5 hours straight is quite okay.

jules11589
07th March 2011

RADIOHEAD TALK SHOW HOST. my number one pick. I dont know what it is about it.

dr.asolomon
09th June 2011

Awesome Lists guys!!

But, how can one ever miss out the best of the lot??? :o

Robin Thicke - Dreamworld(Album - Something Else).

Try it out asap! grin2.gif

Cheers!

drunkedMiss
11th June 2011

Hi! Great songs! grin2.gif

Well... when someone has that voice, he can sing about anything he wants and it would sound sexy.


Bitter:Sweet- Drink you sober, Dirty laundry(skeewiff rmx), A moment, Drama
Serge Gainsbourg & Brigitte Bardot- Je taime, Bonnie & Clyde
The dresden dolls- Coin- operated boy, Missed me, First orgasm
Charlotte Gainsbourg- Le chat du caf des artistes
Waldeck- Why did we fire the gun
Thievery corporation- Until the morning, Lebanese blonde
Sparklehorse- King of nails, Eyepennies
Mick Harvey- Slow- motion- movie- star
Morphine- The saddest song, You look like rain, Top floor, bottom buzzer, Super sex, The night
Leonard Cohen- I'm your man
Koop- Koop Island blues, Strange love
Elysian fields- Bend your mind
Anita Lane- Blume, Sexual healing, Like Caesar needs a Brutus, Do the Kamasutra
Blur- Good song
Videosex- Videosex
Tom Waits- Low down
Nick Cave & PJ Harvey- Henry Lee
Nick Cave- The ship song

mrs.jones
07th July 2011

Ummm isn't EVERYONE forgetting Bed by J Holiday!!!!


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=82t_UOMHPJY

This is such a hot song!!! This alone gets me turned on!

canders
17th July 2011

Anything by Deftones. If you listen to their songs all slow songs are about sex. I have had great sex to the Deftones.

JessiLee
22nd July 2011

"Unintended" by Muse


http://youtu.be/8cCrsWC1fpo

MrOldGuy
03rd October 2011

My oh my - this group needs more age and diversity.
I went thru all your songs and found a few I like - Thanks.

Here are my recommendation for top sex songs

So Alive - Love&Rockets.
Degeneration - Mylene Farmer
Young Lust - Pink Floyd
Lay Lady Lay - Bob Dylan
Les Revenants - Vanessa Paradis
You Know I am No Good - Amy Winehouse
Raphael - Carla Bruni
Sexy Boy - Air

noobish
27th October 2011

I agree with several of the entries here.

Here's more from a list I made recently with the significant other to loop through together late at night:
Live - Iris
The Crystal Method - Jaded (plus several others from Vegas, including the famous Trip Like I Do)
Eric Sana - Little Light of Love (plays during the credits of The Fifth Element)
Flunk - Blue Monday (very good version)
Live - Dolphin's Cry
Live - Forever May Not Be Long Enough
Placebo - Pure Morning
Presidents of the U.S.A. - Peaches
Puddle of Mudd - Spaceship
Pushmonkey - Hand Slide
Red Hot Chili Peppers - Get On Top
Red Hot Chili Peppers - Aeroplane
Republica - Ready To Go

These next 3 are from the Sucker Punch soundtrack:
Emiliana Torrini - White Rabbit
Bjork featuring Skunk Anansie - Army of Me
Carla Azar - Tomorrow Never Knows

Dee-Lite - Groove Is In the Heart
Peter Gabriel - In Your Eyes
Peter Gabriel - Sledgehammer ("I'll be your sledgehammer", yes I will, baby!)
Peter Gabriel - Big Time
Marvin Gaye - Let's Get It On
Nancy Sinatra - These Boots Are Made For Walking ("these boots are gonna walk all over you" mmm)
Modern English - I Melt With You
My Darkest Days - Move Your Body
Savage Garden - Truly Madly Deeply

super dirty rap:
50 Cent - Just A Lil Bit
Trick Daddy - I Luv (Dirty)
Trick Daddy - Suckin Fuckin

Plus anything from Porno Soundtracks Vol 1 - Forbidden Ensemble album.

Monti
13th November 2011

Two songs that haven't been mentioned but when I hear them get me going:

Ginuwine - Pony
Framing Hanley - Lollipop

Enjoy wink.gif

daven123
16th November 2011

Definitely love some of those choices, but instead of high and dry, i would pick weird fishes. And definitely needs Love Me Unique by Michael Franti

daven123
16th November 2011

and dont forget morphine or placebo

cristiano
23rd November 2011

the perfect song for me is Nip/Tuck's soundtrack -

The Engine Room - A Perfect Lie.

I once had sex on this song. I played it on repeat and frankly, I barely knew when the song started all over again. I recommend it to all of you.

vanmanster
03rd December 2011

Please, my friends, please....You cannot just pick out sexy songs, slop them together and hope for the best. You have to know who is coming over. You have to have some sense of her. You have to know her age, whether she is a mother, where she grew up, what she did for a first job. Do not, I repeat, do not just put on the tried and true songs. Because it isn’t about setting a mood. It isn’t about establishing a rhythm (if you can’t do it without music you should learn how to first). It is about expressing you to her and allowing her to express her to you. It doesn't matter that she didn't pick out the songs. If you know her, you will pick out the songs that she would want to pick out for herself in that moment. This means not always going for Bon Iver or some s*it like that. You must be creative. You must feel the woman before you actually feel her. You must let the songs flow to you. If you are not willing to put in the time and labor then guess what. You'll have a serviceable song list that will work with the dates that you don't remember. You want better than that and that is why you must go beyond your limited preconceptions about music that services sex and find music that synergizes with sex. If you don't dig what I am saying then you are not having the sex she deserves.

Randal85
10th January 2012

Hey girls and boys!

I've updated my list and have done some ordering.
It's quite fun searching for these songs and I'm not willing to stop just yet, so it's getting longer constatnly, I'll share it with you later if interested (jabe.sephio@gmail.com)

The list can be downloaded via this link: http://www.crocko.com/2B8A8FAC8F284A8899F91DF292988F54/List.xls

Right now it contains 94 songs, all handpicked one by one. I've downloaded them from youtube using online "video to mp3" converting sites, advise you to follow this routine as it's fast and simple.

Little explanation:
The numbers in the front indicate the pace of the songs (1: slow, 10: fast). You will also find 3 different letters - "L" means the song is more suitable for romantic affairs ("love"), "F" is for something less "sensual" ("fuck") and "B" songs are somwhat universal (both). Use these signs to create the right soundtrack for the right occasion.

Have fun, hope you'll find them "useful" smile.gif

Randal85
10th January 2012

I've tryed the link I've just shared and it doesn't seem to work properly. Sorry about that, I've never tryed that file sharing site earlier. Anyway, this one should do the trick: http://data.hu/get/4605340/List.xls It's a Hungarian site (guess where I'm from smile.gif ), click "Lassú letöltés" (which means "slow download") and it's done. Feel free to contact me if there's any problem with it!

Randal85
16th April 2012

Okay, I've started a blog... smile.gif Check it out, daily updates, categorized tracks, download sources, it's all there: sexmusic.blog.com

lovewilltear
25th September 2012

Need to take a moment to express my love for these sexy songs and say I could not agree more. In the past year I've been trying to compile a playlist of the ultimate lusty songs (lustlist?) and I always seem to end up coming back here for inspiration So many of the other lists on the net seem to mistake raunchy lyrics for sexy music, but they just aren't the same thing I know if I'm in a sex haze I can barely make out what *I'm* saying, let alone what some musician is crooning about in the background! Heck I'm as much of a fan of *NIN - Closer* as the next gal, but even the obscurest songs can be sexy if they're played with the right person at the right moment.

Anyway's, different moods call for different songs so here's a small list of my faves!

Slow and sensual:
Cibo Matto - Sugar Water (seeing Sarah Michelle Gellar sexy dancing to this in Buffy...phew)

Air -Playground Love

Hot and heavy:
She wants revenge - Tear you apart (OH man. Oh. Just. oh.)

VAST - Pretty when you cry

Generally awesomehot:
Marcy Playground - Sex and Candy

The Smiths - How soon is now?



...Randal85, your lists are the awesome grin2.gif

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